Story of Harmed Healer 

I was born and raised in a country with less than 1 million people. It’s a small place where people think they know you but truly, they don’t even know themselves.
I’ve come to terms with the fact that in a small town, so many of us grow up worrying way too much about what people think. So much so, that some traits we believe to be our personalities are simply defense mechanisms in response to growing up in a small town where there is immense pressure to be perfect amongst the crowd.
I grew up in a good family, never wanted for anything and in the best way they knew, I was shown great love. I was taught the importance of education and independence. My parents spared no expense there, as my only sister is a doctor and I have three Master’s Degrees.
I’ve travelled, met and gotten to know people from different cultures and walks of life. I am a no-bullshit kind of woman, that some people find rude/ entitled and others refreshing; they are both right. I am however, a complete sucker for sunrises and fireworks – show me good ones and I’m all yours.
I have also been blessed with good friends, have felt what it was like to love and be loved, to hurt and be hurt and to summon resilience skills I didn’t know were humanly possible.
However, I’ve also been beaten and broken in a way that is not noticeable unless people truly want to take notice. But that’s what life does, right? I’ve come to see that these long strings of compromises and the necessity for tolerance and endurance have been the best things to ever happen to me. What can I say? Clichés are clichés for a reason.
This website is a blog of my life, both professional and personal. I have taken all the education I have, along with lessons I’ve learnt and put them into mental health programs and self-books/treatment plans- all currently in the making and will be released by 2023.
To be clear, I, myself am a work in progress and the farthest thing from perfect. I actively try every day to be a good child, sister, cousin, friend, humanitarian and to behave in a manner that shows unparalleled self-love. We all deserve that, don’t we?